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One for the road

The road to Limnonari beach (copyright of the picture belongs to Max Mury)

Max and Elli Mury were great friends with Apostolis Kosifis who unfortunately died the end of December 2021. Max, together with musician and restaurant owner Panagiotis Asteriadis of Skopelos have made this song for Apostolis who had a favorite saying: “one for the road”

Hear the song dedicated to Apostolis; one for the road.

The lyrics of the song:

ONE FOR THE ROAD

We‘ve been friends for so long

but we didn’t had a chance to carry on

known each other pretty well

and we met all the years the same place I can tell

celebrating our life

and time was always on our side

sitting here having fun

raising our glasses yamas and then goodbye

and you said

One for the road

And another one we take for Hope

and you said

One for the asphalt road

and another one for the long and dusty road

We saw the sun rising up and we shared our minds

and we never had enough

time was endless in these times

we felt invincible we had the best part of our life

hard to tell that that’s all gone

and for me that island will be a different one

but I’m sure when I get back

I will go where we always used to stay and

I will hear you say

One for the road

And another one we take for Hope

and I will hear you say

One for the asphalt road

and another one for the long and dusty road❤

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Ach Apostolis!

Today we remembered Apostolis Kosifis with a 40 days memorial. Family and friends were around. It was good to see.

For me the words of Téa Obreht in the book “The tiger’s wife” give me comfort.

“The forty days of the soul begin on the morning after death. That first night, before its forty days begin, the soul lies still against sweated-on pillows and watches the living fold the hands and close the eyes, choke the room with smoke and silence to keep the new soul from the doors and the windows and the cracks in the floor so that it does not run out of the house like a river. The living know that, at daybreak, the soul will leave them and make its way to the places of its past — the schools and dormitories of its youth, army barracks and tenements, houses razed to the ground and rebuilt, places that recall love and guilt, difficulties and unbridled happiness, optimism and ecstasy, memories of grace meaningless to anyone else — and sometimes this journey will carry it so far for so long that it will forget to come back. For this reason, the living bring their own rituals to a standstill: to welcome the newly loosed spirit, the living will not clean, will not wash or tidy, will not remove the soul’s belongings for forty days, hoping that sentiment and longing will bring it home again, encourage it to return with a message, with a sign, or with forgiveness.

If it is properly enticed, the soul will return as the days go by, to rummage through drawers, peer inside cupboards, seek the tactile comfort of its living identity by reassessing the dish rack and the doorbell and the telephone, reminding itself of functionality, all the time touching things that produce sound and make its presence known to the inhabitants of the house”

Apostolis is around and will always be.

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With great sadness and a big sense of loss we laid to rest today, Mr. Apostolis Kosifis, who was an anchor on Skopelos for many, many people.

Apostolis was known because of his work as a travel agent. He had a boat ticket office opposite the harbor for many, many years.

Who hasn’t received help from him, before, during or after traveling with a boat. No boat ticket available ? but he put you on that boat, no room for a car ? but that car travelled to its destination, luggage lost, he found it.

Apostolis was not a man of yes and no. He was a, probably, maybe and there is a good chance. He thought there was always a solution and he would share that information with you.

Many people worked for Apostolis and they became friends and have been with him for ages. Only with regret you stop working for him and you leave his office.

Many years ago he also was a tour operator. And again many people passed by his office. Elli was one of them. She was a rep for Attica Reisen and started working in the office of Apostolis. This describes, her and her husband Max’s, friendship with him.


(Elli, Max and Apostolis)

One for the road…. Our dear friend Apostoli
We lost a very good soul.
Whenever we arrived on Skopelos, we first went to his office to greet him and it was as if we were coming home.
We met Apostolis for the first time in 1999 in his office in the old harbour where Elli worked in his office at that time.
He told her that she will learn a lot in Greece. It was more than a lot.
Even when it was very stressful in the high season he never lost his great sense of humour. He was always friendly and solid as a rock.
In the following years, in which we met regularly on Skopelos, a wonderful friendship developed.
We remember his amazing quotes like “Everything is under Control“ or “Finito La Musica – Passato La Festa“.“One for the road and one for the asphalt road and after that one for the dusty road!“ That was what he said, when we couldn’t end a marvelous evening we had spent together.

What will it be like when we arrive next year on Skopelos and go to his office?
We are very sad, we have tears in our eyes and pain in our hearts.
Our thoughts are with his beloved ones; Maya and his children Angeliki and Vangelis. Apostoli we will miss you and we will drink „one for the road“ remembering what a great person you were. We are grateful to have had the privilege of knowing you.
Goodbye, our dear friend. We already miss you infinitely. Now the party is over. “Finito La Musica Passato La Festa!“
Elli & Max

My first job on the island was in Apostolis his office. I think it was 1998. I was also a rep but for Hotelplan, a Dutch travel organization. I met Elli there and until today we keep in contact. Apostolis taught me the ropes in tourism, he introduced me to the people I had to work with and through him I got credit, they helped me because Apostolis vouched for me. He had my back. What a start for a stranger on a small Greek island. I never met a more kinder boss. I made mistakes but he never got mad. When I became pregnant and had to start work again with a very small child he allowed me to take my three month old daughter to the office so I could feed her. After that she slept in a office chair because she was still so small. Ηe called her, up to this day, (rose) bud/ μπουμπουκι. Years later when I went to work somewhere else he gave me a bonus. I still have that bank transfer paper.

A boulder in the harbor is gone. The harbor is not the same anymore. Apostolis will not walk up to the incoming ferryboat. Apostolis is gone. Our thoughts are with Maya, Vangelis and Angeliki and all those that loved him.

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Hero

Kostas Karvelis, photo by Kostas Andreou

Eight years ago I used this photo made by Kostas Andreou to tell skopelosnews readers about Mr. Kostas Karvelis who was 80 years old at the time and still working as a goat herder with his son Pandelis. Unfortunately Pandelis has since died but Mr. Kostas is still going strong.

Today he is 88 years old and you can still find him, with his big goat herd, in the Pirgos area.

Every morning, very early, he will walk from the village of Elios up to the Pirgos area to the herd. It takes him 1,5 hours o get up the hill. He then will walk all day in the area of Pirgos with the goats and in the late afternoon, after the work has been done, he will walk down to Elios again. Maybe in less than 1,5 hours because it is downhill.

We found Mr. Kostas on the road near the small Agios Riginos church in Pirgos this afternoon around 4 o’ clock and passed him with the car but my husband said:” stop! I think we can give him a lift”.

And he gladly accepted. 88 years old and still working so hard. Mr. Kostas probably does not know what life without work is. He probably would not know what to do with himself. He has been with the goats since he was 12. He married. He has three daughters. The car that his son left behind he cannot drive, never learned to. We saw it outside his house when we dropped him off.

But he is a hero for me and my husband. I feel humbled that I know him a little. Just the way he is. A no nonsense guy. Work needs to be done. People need milk and meat. I provide it he says.

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Today I visited the workshop of Pandelis and Constantinos Kyriakis. I was invited by Pandelis’s wife Barbara whom I know from the days I worked in tourism.
Pandelis left the elementary school at the end of the 70’s and started working for the carpenter and wood carver Skopelitan Jannis Kritsilis. After a couple of years Pandelis left Skopelos and lived in Athens. When he returned to Skopelos he worked as a carpenter and woodcarver but also as a fisherman.
The last couple of years he has focused on woodcarving mainly and his son Constantinos joined him last year.

A lot of woodcarving are based on drawings. Pandelis has quite a few and some are over 40 years old. He inherited most of them from Mr. Kritsilis.

At the moment Pandelis and Constantantinos are working on a church iconostasis. A framework of wood meant for icons and elaborate woodwork in a church.
Here you see the frame, the woodcarvings that will go on the lowest part of the frame and the doors. Pandelis and Constantinos are discussing what goes where and how.

Other things that they make are chandeliers, head boards for beds and chests.
I like the carvings of mermaids, sea horses and octopuses on the chest!

It is wonderful to see that a trade like woodcarving is not lost on Skopelos and that the younger generation continues in the footsteps of their parents. Pandelis his Facebook page is here: If you are interested to visit their workplace let me know.

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For K.


(View over the Karya area towards Glysteri beach, September 2020)

Recently I have dedicated some of my posts to people who love Skopelos and have been here, like Anna. There are more people who cannot be here for one or another reason.It is not only because of the Corona virus. Other things happen suddenly in our and their lives too. Todays post and this song is for K. She is unable to spend time on her favorite island and she misses Skopelos very much. I want to wish her well and hope she and her family can come back soon.


(Love is I think and on the day of love” sung by Jannis parios and his son Harris)

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(photo received from his daughter Keri)

The forty days of the soul begin on the morning after death. That first night, before its forty days begin, the soul lies still against sweated-on pillows and watches the living fold the hands and close the eyes, choke the room with smoke and silence to keep the new soul from the doors and the windows and the cracks in the floor so that it does not run out of the house like a river.

The living know that, at daybreak, the soul will leave them and make its way to the places of its past — the schools and dormitories of its youth, army barracks and tenements, houses razed to the ground and rebuilt, places that recall love and guilt, difficulties and unbridled happiness, optimism and ecstasy, memories of grace meaningless to anyone else — and sometimes this journey will carry it so far for so long that it will forget to come back.

For this reason, the living bring their own rituals to a standstill: to welcome the newly loosed spirit, the living will not clean, will not wash or tidy, will not remove the soul’s belongings for forty days, hoping that sentiment and longing will bring it home again, encourage it to return with a message, with a sign, or with forgiveness.
(The tiger’s wife by Tea Obreht)


(photo received from his daughter Keri)

Tomorrow, in the saint Michaels church the 40 days passing away of Mr. Dimitri Koutsomitis will be remembered. In Greece it is a custom to have a church ceremony. It is important to recognize this time.
Mr. Dimitri was born in 1919, right after the first world. He studied for engineer and simultaneously worked in an aircraft factory but when the Germans confiscated the factory during World war two mr. Dimitri did not want to help the German invaders so he left. He returned to Skopelos with great difficulty.

He joined the resistance and fought in the Pillion area and elsewhere. He was imprisoned in the Greek civil war on Makronisos, an island that was used as a military prison.

After the Greek civil mr. Dimitri found work on a boat and finally ended up in Australia. He married and has two children. In 1988 he returned to Skopelos. He would visit the municipal cafe/kafenion every day and talk about the news, politics etc. He was always well dressed. We will remember him as a kind person who was well informed about what was going on in the world. A person who suffered during his life but never became bitter about it. Always polite, always thankful for what he had. May he rest in peace.

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We great sadness we announce that today , our beloved, Mr. Dimitri Koutsomiti has died. He was 101 years old. Today, Thursday his funeral will be held in the Agios Michael church at 18.00 hours. The church is close to the police station. Mr. Dimitri has had a full life and has done a great serice to Greece in the second World War. We will together with his family tell his story soon.

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R.I.P miss Maria Garofalis

This morning my landlady and friend miss Maria Garfolis passed away after a short sickbed.

I met miss Maria for the first time at least 15 years ago when I started to do town walks in Skopelos town. I had the idea to show a Greek orthodox church to visitors and I knew a lady who held keys to the Saint Michael church. She was not immediately overjoyed when I first asked her because she was so protective of “her” church. She had keys so she could light candles, clean when necessary and do anything that the priest needed for the services held there.

Miss Maria never married. She used to work in the family business and when she got older she was asked to tend to the church and that “job” was what her life was about. She also helped a lot of people. I know she cooked for an older bachelor, she helped out many people as much as she could without asking anything in return. Only if it meant she could not help out in the church she would say no.

Almost three years ago she also became my landlady and the blessings to me, my husband, my sister, my children and my clients were an everyday phenomenon. She was glad we were in her life and we were even happier. I will never forget the warm summer evenings I used to work in my office and she and her sister would sit outside and talk to everybody that would pass by. She was not able to speak everybody’s language but she made sure, in her own language, that a sweet word was passed on. She thanked people for visiting Skopelos, she blessed the babies in the strollers and encouraged young people.

The fact that her street was filling up with shops the last couple of years was a great joy to her. She will be missed terribly by all of us.

Miss Maria’s funeral will be held tomorrow in the Saint Michael’s church at 11 o’clock.

Kαλό ταξίδι και καλό παράδεισο Μαρία.

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Happy birthday Mr. Dimitri

Today Mr. Dimitris Koutsomitis’s has his 101st birthday.

I think he is the oldest resident of Skopelos. Mr. Koutsomitis was part of the Greek resistance in the Second World War and he is usually the one that lays a wrath of flowers on the war monument in Skopelos harbor. Some friends, keeping the right distance of course, presented him with a cake and sang happy birthday to him this morning. What a great gesture!!

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